{"id":2039,"date":"2025-12-09T12:15:18","date_gmt":"2025-12-09T13:15:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gogetmuscle.com\/?p=2039"},"modified":"2025-12-10T17:44:48","modified_gmt":"2025-12-10T17:44:48","slug":"why-great-employees-dont-always-make-great-managers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/gogetmuscle.com\/index.php\/2025\/12\/09\/why-great-employees-dont-always-make-great-managers\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Great Employees Don\u2019t Always Make Great Managers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ducttapemarketing.com\/why-great-employees-dont-always-make-great-managers\/\">Why Great Employees Don\u2019t Always Make Great Managers<\/a> written by <a href=\"https:\/\/ducttapemarketing.com\/author\/johnjantsch\/\">John Jantsch<\/a> read more at <a href=\"https:\/\/ducttapemarketing.com\">Duct Tape Marketing<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Listen to the full episode:<\/em>\n<\/p>\n<h2><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-84688 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/gogetmuscle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Ashley-herd.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"352\" height=\"352\" \/>Episode Overview:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>In this episode of the Duct Tape Marketing Podcast, host John Jantsch talks with <strong>Ashley Herd<\/strong> \u2014 founder of Manager Method and former Head of HR at McKinsey \u2014 about what it really takes to be an effective, empathetic manager. Herd argues that many managers are \u201caccidental\u201d: promoted because they excelled individually, without any training for leadership. She shares her practical framework for building management skills, focusing on clear expectations, real communication, coaching over commanding, and leading in a way that supports people rather than burns them out.<\/p>\n<h2>Guest: Ashley Herd<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Founder, Manager Method | Former Head of HR, McKinsey<\/strong><br \/>\nAshley Herd is the founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/managermethod.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Manager Method<\/a>, a leadership-development firm dedicated to helping managers build confidence, support their teams, and deliver results \u2014 without sacrificing people\u2019s well\u2011being. With experience in corporate sales, law, and HR, Ashley brings a unique \u201ccareer quilt\u201d perspective rooted in both strategy and empathy.<\/p>\n<h2>Key Takeaways:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Many managers are promoted for high performance, not leadership potential \u2014 and they often get no training.<\/li>\n<li>Clear expectations aren\u2019t just goals; they\u2019re conversations about roles, impact, and support.<\/li>\n<li>One-on-one meetings should go beyond status updates to explore challenges, growth, and engagement.<\/li>\n<li>Feedback (positive and critical) should be delivered with empathy, not ego \u2014 using Herd\u2019s \u201cPause \u2192 Consider \u2192 Act\u201d model.<\/li>\n<li>Great managers act like coaches, not bosses \u2014 empowering their teams to lead and grow.<\/li>\n<li>Small actions \u2014 like explaining why you hired someone \u2014 can transform trust and motivation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Notable Moments:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>00:55<\/strong> \u2013 Why promoting top performers can backfire without proper leadership training.<\/li>\n<li><strong>06:20<\/strong> \u2013 Herd explains how to define and communicate truly \u201cclear expectations.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>10:50<\/strong> \u2013 The underestimated power of one-on-one meetings for trust and retention.<\/li>\n<li><strong>13:06<\/strong> \u2013 Herd\u2019s \u201cPause\u2013Consider\u2013Act\u201d framework for giving effective feedback.<\/li>\n<li><strong>15:40<\/strong> \u2013 The value of treating managers as coaches and culture builders.<\/li>\n<li><strong>20:16<\/strong> \u2013 A simple tip: always tell new hires why they were chosen.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Memorable Quotes:<\/h2>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>\u201cA lot of managers don\u2019t know what to do. They weren\u2019t given any training \u2014 no guidance on how to coach, delegate, or handle people issues.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>\u201cIf you make time for a one-on-one and show up on time, it sends such a strong signal. That alone shows you care more than you think.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>Resources &amp; Links:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/managermethod.com\/book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Manager Method \u2013 Book + Discussion Guide<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/managermethod.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ManagerMethod.com<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Follow Ashley on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ashleyherd\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div id=\"fbxt-wrap\">\n<div id=\"fbxt-wrap--inner\" class=\"fbxt-extra-class\">\n<div class=\"fbxt-header\">\n<div class=\"fbxt-header--logo\">\n<p>\t\t\t\t<span class=\"fbxt-header-text\">Duct Tape Transcript<\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<div class=\"fbxt-header--nav\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"fbxt-header--nav-item fbxt-nav-email\" href=\"#\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"fbxt-nav-text\">Email<\/span><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"fbxt-header--nav-item fbxt-nav-download\" href=\"#\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"fbxt-nav-text\">Download<\/span><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"fbxt-header--nav-item fbxt-nav-new_tab\" href=\"#\"><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"fbxt-nav-text\">New Tab<\/span><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"fbxt-content\">\n<div class=\"fbxt-content--inner\">\n<p>John Jantsch (00:01.683)<\/p>\n<p>Hello and welcome to another episode of the Duck Date Marketing Podcast. This is John Jantsch and my guest today is Ashley Herd. She&#8217;s the founder of Manager Method and a former head of HR for McKinsey. She&#8217;s known for her practical real-world approach to leadership, helps managers build their skills they need to lead confidently, support their teams and get results without burning people out. We&#8217;re gonna talk about her new book, The Manager Method, a practical framework to lead, support and get.<\/p>\n<p>So actually welcome to the show.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (00:32.93)<\/p>\n<p>Thank you so much, John. So glad to be here. Love the podcast.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (00:36.143)<\/p>\n<p>So most of the managers I know become managers by accident. That&#8217;s a typical company. It&#8217;s like, you&#8217;re the best salesperson. You&#8217;re now the sales manager. what problems do you see that that dynamic kind of creates for organizations? mean, is there a better, more practical way to actually create managers?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (01:02.158)<\/p>\n<p>I think there is. mean, one is that&#8217;s often the case. In sales is the perfect example of that because it is the place where I think it can be the hardest mindset. Maybe marketing too, because it&#8217;s very creative. But when you have sales in particular, you&#8217;re super competitive, you&#8217;re used to be a number one. All of a sudden you&#8217;re promoted to sales manager, often because organizations think they&#8217;re great, they&#8217;ll teach everybody win-win. We&#8217;re going to turn everyone into little versions of them. Then all of sudden they become a manager.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (01:03.878)<\/p>\n<p>me.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (01:28.312)<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re not used to sharing their tips. They don&#8217;t remember how they first got started. They&#8217;re coaching poor performers that they have no empathy for whatsoever. And now they&#8217;re dealing with time off issues, people issues, all of these people things. It often that win-win really quickly becomes a lose-lose. And so I do think it&#8217;s important for organizations to really think about career paths. mean, sales is one in particular. Now, I think you see plenty of individuals that have been an individual contributor in sales and have thrived in it.<\/p>\n<p>or that have gone into a sales manager role and happily gone back into an individual contributor role. And so some of it is thinking about who really is interested in becoming a manager, but developing people and giving them the tools. mean, the first tale of Zoldyf&#8217;s time I see is people promoted just because they&#8217;re good at their job. The second is people promoted and then you don&#8217;t get any sort of resources and training to actually know how to coach and delegate, understand why those matter and how to do them and how to think about.<\/p>\n<p>the people issues that all of sudden they&#8217;re popping up that you have no idea what to do with.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (02:28.595)<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a, I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;re a baseball fan, but this is a really common thing in a lot of sports. The best managers were never the best players. They were usually like second string catcher that just like watched the game and saw every angle of the game. know, but the superstars actually didn&#8217;t make great managers because they were used to having everybody carry their bags for example. So does that dynamic kind of play out in sort of the manager in a business?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (02:36.278)<\/p>\n<p>Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (02:55.066)<\/p>\n<p>It does. it&#8217;s the same when you see that with coaches. The other day I was just watching Packers Bills and so they said neither Josh Allen nor Aaron Rodgers. They hadn&#8217;t even as individual contributors, they hadn&#8217;t gotten D1 scholarships. So people can be developed over time and managers, absolutely see that. And so I think that absolutely resonates because one of the things that I say sometimes, one is if you&#8217;re thinking about becoming a manager, go in your local community Facebook group and just look at the discussions that go on and think,<\/p>\n<p>what I want to manage those people in the workplace. And if you have some interest in it, then you&#8217;re probably set out to be a manager because you&#8217;re going to work with those different people dynamics. But the second is, what&#8217;s important to you? Is it your gold stars, your recognition, or is it about your teams? Because I actually think it&#8217;s really OK for a lot of people. They realize through this process how much individual recognition means to them. And that&#8217;s where it can be important to that<\/p>\n<p>As a manager, you can really shift. And so all of a sudden giving people, giving other people kudos, talking about their names, a really easy trap for people is to think, well, if I start doing that, all of sudden I&#8217;m not needed. And they don&#8217;t realize that one of the best things that can happen is for senior leaders to know all different names of the people on your team. And they come first to mind rather than you because you&#8217;re creating those pathways and getting the results that matter and building those careers as well.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (04:20.947)<\/p>\n<p>So this is ostensibly a marketing show, but I have anything that has to do with business, to me, relates to marketing. So I have a lot of leadership book authors. I have a lot of management book authors on this show. So when you set out to write this book, did you say to yourself, here&#8217;s the gap that I&#8217;m going to fill? Like, here&#8217;s what nobody else has figured out and written about?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (04:41.582)<\/p>\n<p>Well, of course I did, because everyone thinks that way, John. But what I saw, my path was a little unique. started in sales. I actually started, like when I talk about sales, I was in a very high pressure corporate sales role, cold calling CFOs to start with, long before I went into legal and HR. And so I have a sense of what it can be like working in some of those different functions. But what I saw frequently, whether sales or legal or HR, often it wasn&#8217;t<\/p>\n<p>managers doing the wrong thing or saying the wrong thing necessarily. It was managers that didn&#8217;t know what to do. And so they weren&#8217;t giving feedback to their team members. They weren&#8217;t having conversations. They really weren&#8217;t. And so what I set out to do was really to help have a practical way to think about your team, think about results, but also give ideas of what to do and say in situations. That can be a lot easier for someone to take an example and put that into their own voice. And that&#8217;s the gap that I was really trying to fill with the manager method.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (05:39.709)<\/p>\n<p>So I often say this about a lot of situations that the key to success is usually expectations. And you write in the book about the idea that clear expectations is one of the foundational elements. But that&#8217;s one of those things that you can say clear expectations. And that&#8217;s going to mean 100 things to 100 different people. And most of us probably just have our default. It&#8217;s like, well, yeah, I told them to get the job done.<\/p>\n<p>wasn&#8217;t that clear? Right? So how do you help people kind of become, know, clearer when their kind of default personality is, doesn&#8217;t everybody get it?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (06:21.326)<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s great. mean, I clear expectations is very similar to strategic in these terms that people are told you need to do, especially as a manager, whether you&#8217;re hiring your first team member or you have a group. But clear expectations, I think it&#8217;s really important to break that down into a conversation. so ways I do that, and one resource that you&#8217;ll see on the site as part of the book, is to have that conversation with your teams of literally breaking it down. This is how your role plays into the overall organization. If you do well in it,<\/p>\n<p>This is how it impacts others. And if you don&#8217;t, for some reason, this is how it impacts others as well. Now, clear expectations, this is whether you can quantify things. Like if you&#8217;re in sales, for example, like, OK, your book is, you you&#8217;re supposed to bring in 750K a year. And that&#8217;s where a lot of sales leaders in particular stop. They give you your goal, you move on with life. OK, now I&#8217;m going to scramble and do everything I can call every relative I&#8217;ve ever heard of to try to make that happen. But so the part of clear expectations is that conversation of<\/p>\n<p>Here are things you can do. Here are tips from others. This is what you can figure out for yourself, and this is the support that you&#8217;ll have. It&#8217;s putting the layers beneath that. To say to someone, for example, if on Monday, okay, your goal is 15K this week to bring it in. And then it&#8217;s having the conversation and saying, what are you going to be doing on Tuesday? What&#8217;s Wednesday going to look like? And what about Thursday that can make that happen? What could possibly get in the way?<\/p>\n<p>that could hurt that. What can you do to prevent that? And so it&#8217;s having some of those additional questions and conversation to really have it bring it to life rather than just saying the goal and having them figure out the what, where, how, why, and everything else in between.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (07:59.827)<\/p>\n<p>And that kind of goes both ways though, right? I mean, it&#8217;s on that person who&#8217;s being told what the expectation is to say that&#8217;s not realistic, right? I mean, to have that dialogue. And I think that&#8217;s where sometimes, I know in my own experience where, you know, I&#8217;ve set what I thought were clear expectations, the person on the other side is saying that they can, wait, that&#8217;s gonna happen, but they don&#8217;t tell me. And so all of sudden, again, it&#8217;s like neither of us are meeting the right expectations. So.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (08:19.917)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (08:25.583)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, I think it&#8217;s true. And I&#8217;ve seen it in some ways, like when I was a lawyer, for example, people would say this and say, OK, we need we need this contract. We need this contract negotiated right now. Today we need it signed. I say, OK, well, this other side&#8217;s had it for about two months and you&#8217;re giving it to me. And again, what I can do is this is really important to move around or not. What also is in little teeny tiny print at the bottom that you don&#8217;t see, because like the CEO says it&#8217;s important. I&#8217;m like, OK, but we also want to have credibility. And so if all of a sudden we&#8217;re turning things around, it can make us look<\/p>\n<p>whether it&#8217;s desperate or now this is something that&#8217;s not a priority, it&#8217;s being able to have those conversations. And for me, some of the best working environments, whether it&#8217;s a small team or large, is being able to have that two-way street and talk about what else is going on and not just saying yes and sacrificing your life to get it done.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (09:11.323)<\/p>\n<p>So you just slipped in another career actually. How many careers have you had?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (09:15.437)<\/p>\n<p>Well, in the book, John, I call it a career quilt. mean, those that, especially those, you know, those that are that are working with your fractional CMO agency system and that, you people often and now more than ever, I do think are trying to figure out what do I want to do when I grow up, whether you are five years old or you are 75 years old and trying to figure those things out. And so, you know, I I had I probably thought for a while I would be a lawyer, but it was the things that I learned.<\/p>\n<p>Right now, what I do is I post videos on social media because I have thick skin from cold calling CFOs. And so those comments don&#8217;t hurt me like they may not have if I didn&#8217;t get hung up on the phone by CFOs. so having that background of legal where things go wrong, sales of understanding revenue and the pressures people are under, NHR about really how to harness the power of people and importance on people&#8217;s work and life, those have led me to where I am today, my very unique career quilt.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (10:14.163)<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s get down to one of the, probably the biggies for lot of managers, the one-on-one meeting. And I hate to do this, but I&#8217;m just gonna use myself as like you&#8217;re a bad example for how to fix this. But a lot of my one-on-ones end up turning into status reports. It&#8217;s like, here&#8217;s all the stuff. where are we on this? Where are we this? And then there&#8217;s no time for like, what do you want out of your career?<\/p>\n<p>you know, kind of conversation. how important is it that you have those separate meetings, that you have that one-on-one that really drives engagement?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (10:50.607)<\/p>\n<p>I think a one-on-one is really important to get work done. And it&#8217;s so much more important for your team member than you sometimes realize. What I see frequently in my very scientific comments on social media, if I do a video on one-on-ones, people will say, I don&#8217;t even know what that is. My manager never shows up to them. Or if they show up, they&#8217;re 25 minutes late to a 30 minute meeting. And so for team members, it actually really is a signal. If you as a manager, you make that time and you show up on time, barring emergency or on, it sends such a strong signal, just that.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (10:57.128)<\/p>\n<p>me<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (11:20.143)<\/p>\n<p>aspect alone because often your team members, especially if it&#8217;s really stretched out your one-on-one time, they may have 37 things on their list and they&#8217;re just dying to get through it. But it really is a balance. One thing that can help is having, whether it&#8217;s a shared agenda or a shared document between those. the status, because it is important to know where things are. But if you use that and it can take habits to get into it and use it both ways, so the employee is adding information and the manager is actually looking at it in advance.<\/p>\n<p>then you can knock out a lot of that normal back and forth of where are things, what should we do next? And put that into more of the document, talk through any call out areas. But on the flip side, it would also feel super awkward every week to have your manager say, look, what do you want in your career? You&#8217;re like, well, I&#8217;ve had the same job for three and a half years and my answer&#8217;s the same that it&#8217;s been since, you know, since 2021. But is to think about having some of those questions. And that&#8217;s why I can help to say things like, what&#8217;s something that you could use some advice on?<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (12:03.463)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, right.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (12:18.739)<\/p>\n<p>Or as a manager, here&#8217;s a decision I&#8217;m making. What are your, what are your, I&#8217;d love your takes on it. Because a lot of times when you get into leadership, you can feel really alone because outside of your organization, you might have a network, you might not. But if you talk to your team members and open up about your reality, the decisions you&#8217;re making, maybe if things you&#8217;re struggling with and get their thoughts, they&#8217;re likely to tell something at some point that you haven&#8217;t thought of before, but you&#8217;re also that&#8217;s, that can help with career development much more than a more forced conversation.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (12:49.373)<\/p>\n<p>So, somewhat related feedback, both good and bad, that we should provide, hopefully we are providing. Do you have kind of a framework for the way to give honest feedback that doesn&#8217;t put people immediately on the defensive?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (13:06.319)<\/p>\n<p>So in the book, I actually have the framework, this pause, consider, act framework, a three-part framework for any decision as a manager. And what that means is pause to just, whether it&#8217;s taking a beat, one of the biggest issues I see as a manager is thinking you have to know all the answers and just going straight ahead and reacting in the moment. But sometimes it&#8217;s taking that pause. But also consider and act. And so frequently what I see of people not giving either more critical feedback or more positive,<\/p>\n<p>The critical feedback is they don&#8217;t want to, it sounds so mean, it feels so awkward. In the consider aspect, can think, you know, that&#8217;s a lot about yourself. You&#8217;re, more worried about yourself and how you&#8217;ll be perceived. But think on the flip side, especially you may have, like, let&#8217;s say you have a team member and you&#8217;re like, they&#8217;ve been doing this for years. No one has told them this. Why, why would I say something now? But think to the flip side of this is someone that could have used this feedback years ago. If you can be the person that delivers that, that can change the course of the rest of their career.<\/p>\n<p>and be the person that they really look to as a leader. so instead of focusing so much on how it feels, thinking about that person, what do you want? If they&#8217;re making mistakes, if they&#8217;re missing deadlines, how can you also ask questions to get their perspective? I mean, that&#8217;s a really important one before you go in. A lot of times people make assumptions, but thinking about the questions that you can ask that you maybe don&#8217;t know the information to, and then delivering that and telling people sometimes, especially if it&#8217;s someone that&#8217;s not used to hearing that feedback, or you can tell, you know, they kind of get emotional.<\/p>\n<p>is saying to you, I&#8217;m giving this because I care about you in this job and your career. And it&#8217;s really important for me to work with you on things, not to come down at you, not to, not to beat you down, but to really build you up. And some of that is hearing perspectives from others. And there&#8217;s ways you can say that and people can always find their own voice. may be listeners that hear this, that think I would, I don&#8217;t know how it possibly says, say that. And that&#8217;s where even like AI tools can help to say, this is how I don&#8217;t normally talk so corny. How can I say this in a way that feels natural, but really shifting the focus from yourself to that.<\/p>\n<p>person. And the other is, is positive feedback. I frequently hear and people don&#8217;t people more think about how hard it is to get critical feedback. But people don&#8217;t realize how rare it is for others to hear recognition at work. Or if you&#8217;re in a meeting and someone says something about a team member going and telling that team member or bringing them into that meeting. mean, those are the moments that that don&#8217;t happen enough that that really, really matter and you can make a real impact on that person&#8217;s job today and career.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (15:28.595)<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s become, don&#8217;t know if fashionable is right word, you hear the word a lot, coach. Does a manager today need to think of themselves as more of coaching role or is that?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (15:42.289)<\/p>\n<p>I do. Well, I laugh because I worked at Young Brands, KFC, as part of my career. And they actually call bosses or managers coaches. That&#8217;s it. And so I&#8217;ll see that sometimes on social media. you remember it. And that&#8217;s more of a formalized way. But I do think so. And people can have different ways. I prefer the terms leaders or coaches to bosses or managers sometimes because it just changes the dynamic. I I think often, as you think about the org chart, the<\/p>\n<p>The best leaders or coaches are the ones that focus on driving the performance of those that are beneath them on the org chart, so to speak. And if you flip that and think rather than managing people and controlling them, but really helping them have the ideas and have the performance and grow, and you can coach them into those opportunities, because they&#8217;re the ones that are actually going to do the work. mean, just like the baseball field, they&#8217;re going to be the ones hitting the home run and going around the bases or striking out every time. so using your<\/p>\n<p>feedback and communication to impact that, I really think can have the most lasting impact and have more lasting results.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (16:47.283)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll you, I don&#8217;t know where I learned this, but years ago, somebody told me to just try this next time somebody comes to you as a manager with, what should I do in this situation? And I just said, I don&#8217;t know, what would you do? And it&#8217;s just like amazing, because they have the answer, but they want you to give it to them or something, I don&#8217;t know, but that one thing alone has changed how I manage completely, it&#8217;s the simplest thing in world.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (17:03.95)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (17:15.056)<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s simplest thing, it doesn&#8217;t, it really doesn&#8217;t, it doesn&#8217;t happen. It truly doesn&#8217;t happen enough in the, in the flip to that, to one thing to know is, is if you&#8217;re senior to them, sometimes people will get, will get irritated and they&#8217;ll say, well, you&#8217;re my, you&#8217;re the boss. You make more than me. You should decide. Yeah. Just tell me I don&#8217;t want to make another decision. Well, I don&#8217;t either. Well, you know, so we&#8217;ll both just sit here, but we&#8217;re stand here. But, but, but I think saying, you know, I, like, I&#8217;d love to hear it. 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If you have a CYA culture where people are more afraid of getting in trouble or saying the wrong thing because they&#8217;ve personally seen people get ridiculed or seen others, there&#8217;s plenty that think that you have to have that really hard culture.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (18:09.693)<\/p>\n<p>No.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (18:14.437)<\/p>\n<p>But that really impacts how people feel today, impacts how they work tomorrow and how many days and years thereafter that they want to stay with your organization. And so I think giving people that room, think that&#8217;s, love, I&#8217;m all about those really simple, simple, but powerful tips.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (18:30.141)<\/p>\n<p>So are there any myths or let&#8217;s just say one? Is there one myth that you&#8217;d say that&#8217;s commonly taught all the time? And I want to debunk that with this book.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (18:40.571)<\/p>\n<p>Well, one, I talk about the role of HR. So I&#8217;m a little different than I was a lawyer and then I went into HR. You sometimes see the flip, but what I frequently see is HR is not your friend. And on one hand, I&#8217;ll say that I agree with that. I agree with that myth. But part of that is because HR in an organization, especially if you&#8217;re growing and having that support, they shouldn&#8217;t be your enemy. If you have any function in your organization that people only go to or only think about when things are going wrong.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (18:42.995)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (19:09.211)<\/p>\n<p>then that&#8217;s really a symptom of an unproductive and unhealthy culture overall. And so if you can flip it and think about everyone in your organization of how they can support other people. so HR individuals who are often thought of as like, get the pay right and get people&#8217;s paperwork set up. But if you can take HR and have HR help people, whether it&#8217;s managers, whether it&#8217;s team members on your team, help them to work better and learn how to communicate and they can really drive that.<\/p>\n<p>That can take a lot of pressure off you, no matter what your role is in the organization, and just create a completely different culture.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (19:42.439)<\/p>\n<p>bet you the HR folks would like that too, right? Because they&#8217;re seeing it&#8217;s like you go to them because of administrative paperwork or because your exit interview or like nothing pleasant, right? It&#8217;s like, you&#8217;re going to the principal&#8217;s office.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (19:54.99)<\/p>\n<p>It is, it is, it is, John. It&#8217;s, you know, it&#8217;s, we&#8217;re trying to show we&#8217;re not all, we&#8217;re not all, we&#8217;re not all scary.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (20:02.867)<\/p>\n<p>So the book is full of templates, scripts. Is there one you want to just tease out there to say, like go grab this either from the book or on your website and hear the steps that you ought to follow and why they matter?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (20:16.571)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, one thing is if you&#8217;re looking for resources, especially if you have a group of managers or even non-managers on your team, you&#8217;re trying to have a quick development exercise. On the website, so managermethod.com slash book, we&#8217;ll have a book discussion guide so you can use that for conversations with your team. And one thing I&#8217;ll tease in that is, one tip is to think about is if you&#8217;re hiring someone, if you brought on a team member, or even if someone&#8217;s been there for a while.<\/p>\n<p>Did you tell them why they got the role and what uniquely made them stand out? Or did they just get their offer letter and paperwork? Because taking that pause to tell somebody, really, is what we saw in you, why we&#8217;re so excited to have you join. Specifically, not just we&#8217;re excited to have you join, but this is why. That can help change dramatically how they are from day one and every day after. And again, if you haven&#8217;t hired anybody in your while, I promise you, it is not too late in the book we talk about how you can say that no matter&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>how much time has passed since they started, even if you&#8217;ve worked together for decades.<\/p>\n<p>John Jantsch (21:13.757)<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s interesting because it does kind of set like, this is my identity here. You know, kind of, so I think that&#8217;s really cool. So actually I appreciate you taking a few minutes to stop by the Duck Tape Marketing Podcast. Is there anywhere else you invite people to find out more about you and your work?<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Herd (21:29.509)<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, you can go to managermethod.com. 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